Javier
Bit late on the weigh in, but doesnt sefislh swing both ways? Surely them expecting you to stay in one place for them would be sefislh on their part too? (Not that theyre asking you to but you know )I had a chat with my mum earlier tonight as i was contemplating going traveling and asked her what she did after uni (she's a nurse). She finished training and went straight into work. That was 31years ago. She loves her job but would also like to win the lottery and go see the world.(I didnt waste my breathe explaining that she doesnt need to win the lottery lol). She's has a great family/life/house etc but watching them leave for work at 8am and come home shattered at 6pm only to eat, watch the news, go to bed and do it all over again makes me realise how much I dont want that life. There are enough office workers and people with mortgages out there and just like jobs/chasing money/raising a family makes most people happy, traveling it what makes you happy. Goodbyes are always gonna be hard and they miss you like im sure you miss them but people who love/know you always know when something brings you joy and thats what makes coping easier. Distance really does make the heart grow fonder. Thats what makes reunions that much more memorable, and the time you do spend together invaluable.Enjoy the travels and making memories. The guilt always take care of itself.x
Javier Bit late on the weigh in, but doesnt sefislh swing both ways? Surely them expecting you to stay in one place for them would be sefislh on their part too? (Not that theyre asking you to but you know )I had a chat with my mum earlier tonight as i was contemplating going traveling and asked her what she did after uni (she's a nurse). She finished training and went straight into work. That was 31years ago. She loves her job but would also like to win the lottery and go see the world.(I didnt waste my breathe explaining that she doesnt need to win the lottery lol). She's has a great family/life/house etc but watching them leave for work at 8am and come home shattered at 6pm only to eat, watch the news, go to bed and do it all over again makes me realise how much I dont want that life. There are enough office workers and people with mortgages out there and just like jobs/chasing money/raising a family makes most people happy, traveling it what makes you happy. Goodbyes are always gonna be hard and they miss you like im sure you miss them but people who love/know you always know when something brings you joy and thats what makes coping easier. Distance really does make the heart grow fonder. Thats what makes reunions that much more memorable, and the time you do spend together invaluable.Enjoy the travels and making memories. The guilt always take care of itself.x