He's in my house now. It was difficult finding a suitable place for him. Do I put him in the kitchen where he loved to be ... But it's next to my bedroom? So I settled for the front room where there are lots of Sri Lankan stuff. I've lit a candle and some incense and welcomed him to my home. He never actually saw me here..... Anyway at least he's here. Heavier than I thought. .... Less traumatic ..... But it was one of those days that I would either laugh or cry about .... I ended up laughing after jokes like ... He ain't heavy ... He's my dad!? .... And that was just me!! Everyone at work were lovely and really sensitive. Thank you. Lx