"you marry?, where you husban?, family?, you marry, you marry?" the cabby SHOUTED at me over and over. Of course, this is where I should have introduced my *mountaineer/engineer/paramedic/athlete (*delete as appropriate) gorgeous, fit, 30 something husband called Jake Gillinghall (not that I've thought about it or anything) who was meeting me in Malaysia....but me being a complete dope, I just chuckled and said "no, no husband for me". Well talk about dramatic ...

The eagle has landed.....