Fabio Maybe she is just assuming that since you canont afford to send your husband then it would definitely be impossible for both of you to go. She still should have invited you but give her the benefit of the doubt. Some people are just not very considerate. I'm sure if she thought you both could afford to go she would have invited you. Also, if you have kids and they are in school she might think it would be too hard for you to go, so she did not even bother inviting you. I really don't think she was going out of her way to exclude you. Anyway, I would think it would be nice for your husband to go, he may not want to go without you though. Good luck.