20.5.2008

Swami rocks!

It's like having your own personal psychologist here. Swami not only helps you solve problems but also encourages the inner wisdom, the true guru in you to rise to surface.

Lawrence and I just spent some time with her talking about my elements in the body (strong fire as one would expect but not at all bad if balanced) and talking in general about relationships. This isn't just about relationship between partners but applicable to friendships.

I have to sum this one up, might be useful for others or at least good for me to revisit whenever I need them:

• Recognise what why you need the other person, what you want from them. And then find that in yourself rather than seek it externally and get needy and attached
• Respect the other person, give them space to evolve, to be whole in their own shell
• Give and not take, support the other person
• Learn to let go because you don't own the other person
• Learn that some things happen because of karma, it is that person's path so when one cheats on you don't take it personally. It has nothing to do with you
• Know that when you don't need the other person (because you are whole) you can enjoy their company and love each other unconditionally
• It is possible to have a family based on these foundations
• Communication is key
• Be aware of your intentions and actions in all relationships so you distinguish between animal instincts and human instincts

I like Swami's wisdom. I'm ready to take on any man who will abide to these rules and support him and nurture him because I know that I will be supported in the same way…

Universe, send him soon please!